Twelve percent of first messages men send turn into a date, while women have the advantage of a 30% date conversion rate. No matter what your gender, however, you can increase this rate with a good opening message.
Your initial communication will make or break a potential connection. As shallow as it sounds, we’ve seen people get it wrong too many times to ignore.
The number one mistake people make is beginning a conversation by talking about jobs. Not only does this make you come off as opportunistic, it will also make people question why you are on a dating site.
Instead, I recommend introducing yourself and even employing a bit of flirtatiousness and charm.
There is something about emojis that signal a sense of enthusiasm and cheeriness. They also help call attention to your message.
You can play it safe with a simple wave (👋) or try something more creative. Just don’t overdo it and definitely don’t send anything that can be misconstrued.
The most common icebreaker on a dating website is a simple “hey, how are you?” Not only does this lack creativity, it also looks like a boilerplate message that you send to everyone.
You can mix things up and convey a bit about your personality with a wild card question.
A wildcard question is anything that is obscure enough to make someone look twice and respond out of sheer interest and curiosity.
The unexpected is always memorable.
Telling a terrible joke is a great way to introduce a little levity into a conversation.
It instantly tells a potential match that you can be silly and is generally considered to be a cute way of opening a dialogue.
If you don’t get a response or if you get a negative response, you’ll know that person was never right for you anyway.
Before you know it you will be arranging your first date.
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